anyone know if there is another windshield washer bottle instaed of the small one on the passener side fender?

Yes, there is another one that attaches to that one, it is in the fender. It attaches where the large hose is on the front of the tank.

would i have to remove the entire fender to access it? the fluid pump went out. the wipers work, but the fluid doesnt spray so im going to change the pumps out but i cant find where it is

No, the fender does not have to come off, but the inner wheel well does.
Several push type pins, from the back to the front, at the inner and outer edge, and underneath the front some. Then remove the plastic inner wheel well. There are two 10MM bolts holding the tank in. Be careful here, the tabs that are a molded part of the tank break very easily. The pump is on that tank at the very back. I have changed the tank a few times but have never changed the washer pump itself so I'm not sure if you can do it with it in the car or not, or how exactly how it is removed from the tank. If it can not be changed with the tank still in the car you have to remove the large rubber hose that connects the two tanks, the wiring harness, and the small hose that feeds the fluid to the cowl area.

HTH

sounds like i wont be getting my uncle to do that part. ill try it myself instead

BS, why didnt they design it better...

im going to try doing this in the next week or so....

Im doing this weekend.