...no, sounds like just lack of maintenance. My Riv has 390+ thou and I've never had to even think about opening the motor (although I have replaced the valve cover gaskets).
The 'traction' light sounds like a bad wheel sensor or bad pigtail to a sensor. You will need a TechII to see which wheel is the culprit.
The 'system too lean' could be a crack in the exhaust manifold. Because of peculiarities in exhaust flow, such cracks tend to suck wind and dilute the exhaust effluent - resulting in your O2 sensor complaining that things are too lean. The peek-a-boo P0171 sure sounds like a manifold crack (almost certain at this mileage) or gasket failure (rare). Reason manifold crack is almost certain is that they are a cast ferrous alloy and after so so many thermal cycles they crack. Get a younger one at a junkyard and swap them; consider getting new bolts from ZZP for the job (they sell righteous bolts for cheap).
The long crank may be a fuel system leak somewhere, allowing the pressure stored in the fuel system to bleed down (a lot) between starts. Or just a weak battery, you should test it.